Excellence in Submission

Whenever I call upon a woman I never fail to take with me a little whip.
~ Nietzsche

In all things there must be balance, and so it is in my life.

I started my BDSM journey as a submissive…objectification and pain fit me like a well worn pair of jeans. Offering service to the Dominant (as a footrest, a masseuse or in many other ways) brought me much pleasure. Through my submissive experiences I discovered my masochistic bent as well as the Dominant Woman who lives within me.  However, I have learned through the years that being a full-time Dominant does not suit me; I must, at times, allow another to be in charge and satisfy my cravings to be used. There are times when I desire the feel of the rope as it carresses me or I welcome the bite of the cane like an old friend. For me, pain can be pleasure, a release of sorts, and I have learned to recognize when my masochistic beast must be fed.  Since my very first experiences within BDSM were spanking related, being thoroughly spanked as a naughty girl holds a special place for me, but offering myself for other uses can be  just as enjoyable.

Negotiation for my submissive services is an ongoing process, beginning with your first contact and continuing throughout the scene we plan. I am very open to many activities; some I enjoy more than others and, of course, I have limits that are not to be crossed. I am happy to help you learn to perform various activities if they are new to you; experienced players are welcome to contact me as well, I enjoy being able to fully surrender once I am comfortable with your experience level.

I am also happy to entertain very heavy or extreme sessions, contact me for details. I will only schedule submissive sessions via EMail…I want to know a bit more about you before I put myself at your feet.

Some of my interests include:

  • Sensual massage (or am I supposed to call them body rubs?? whatever, I just love giving a slow, sensual massage…not kinky, I know, but what can I say? And when you combine it with a prostate massage, the world becomes a brighter, happier place !!)
  • Spanking (of course! using hands, paddles, straps or a belt)
  • Wax Play
  • Role Play (Daddy/little girl, Boss/secretary, Teacher/student)
  • Bondage (particularly breast bondage)
  • Flogging, both light and heavy
  • Caning
  • Single Tail
  • Needle Play
  • Boot Worship
  • Forced Orgasms
  • Fisting (we can at least try!)
  • Golden Showers (ON me, not IN me 😉 )

If you have other interests that are not included here, just ask. I might say “no thank you”  but at least we will have a starting point.

My Limits include:

  • Scat
  • Nonconsensual play (animals, etc.)
  • Anal play
  • Fluid exchange (all insertables will be covered with gloves or condoms I provide…I have a latex allergy so use my own supplies for this)
  • Breath Play
  • Broken Bones (First rule of Domminess…don’t break your toys)

I have a large collection of toys and rope, but you are welcome to bring the things you are comfortable with if you choose.



NO sexual activities are implied or condoned by myself or  this site. This site does not promote prostitution nor is this advertisement or any content therein an offer for prostitution. Professional BDSM and Fetish services do not typically include sexual activities. Money exchanged is for Alternative Lifestyle Coaching and anything beyond that is a choice made between two consenting adults and not contracted for by the site or myself.